I am at the men on the board who are saying it's better to hide their attraction for other women than be honest.

I don't mind that my man looks at other women or finds them attractive--don't bother me none. As long as it doesn't go father than that, I'm cool. But, if he ever tells me I'm fat, he'll be "carried by 6" for sure. There are nicer ways to tell a woman that she's "plumping".

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Originally posted by Essence:
^^ I'm strictly d..kly, but I think both women are beautiful. They give off different vibes, though, so I can't answer that one.

I like that...some women not comfortable with themeselves would have took that question and acted as if i tried to call them a bad word....

Great answer....

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Originally posted by persaQUEted:

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Originally posted by FAMUGAL:

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Originally posted by A&T Brandmasta:you expect a man you are seeing/dating/married to/sleeping with to be 100% forthcoming about t-the attractiveness of another woman?

Not me. I don't expect the truth about that or anything else, since most men lie every time they open their mouths.

Once you get that understanding--that cuts all
the drama.

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Questions NOT to ask your man, that you will get the same answer to:

1) Do I look like I have gained weight?
2) Do I look fat in this dress?
3) I think she looks trashy, but do you think Ciara is sexy on this magazine cover?

Answer "yes" to any of the above and you get an avalanche of follow-up questions that you don't feel like going through, especially if the game is on!

You can ask the questions--but just know that he will either lie or tell a half-truth.

Just be ready to try and figure out if he is telling any parts of the truth.

If we thought yall could handle the truth we would tell yall....but most of the time yall can't and only want the answer that will make you feel good...

Wow! What kind of women do you know wo cannot deal with the truth?

If I ask a question, I want an honest answer...not an answer that'll "make me feel good."

And if your wife bought the Essence with Gaby on the cover,she is definently comfortable with herself.

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Originally posted by punchykky:
DAYUM! What kind of men are YOU dealing with if you feel that most of us lie every time we open our mouths?!?!?

That us why I stopped, too many lies all the time,about EVERYTHING.

It was exhausting.

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It was exhausting.

Sound like my son's father. OMG that dude would lie when there wasn't a purpose, and could never keep them straight. He had women, his friends, his family, everybody lying for him. Just give you a headache.