Man, just when I thought this "fiasco" could get no worse, it did. My wife told me a bunch of stuff about this clown that pretty much confirmed that he is the worst husband in the world. I told her I'd post about it to see what peepe here think. I'm pretty sure you'll have the same reaction as me.

OK. My wife's cousin (the one married) has 2 younger sisters. The one who lives in Cali goes to college and comes to visit on the weekends. Last weekend, she stopped by, and heard the kids and husband inside laughing and playing. Well, as soon as she knocked on the door, it stopped. Dude made it seem like they weren't home so she couldn't come in. Eventually, one of the kids opened the door. But it's sad that he made his kids act like no one's there so she couldn't come in.

Not long ago, the youngest boy, who is about 6, asked his aunt why his daddy pushes his mommy. She got him to give her details. Pretty much, what happened was that one time, the husband was beating the middle son, who's about 12. The mother tried to stop him, but he pushed her away. On another occasion, the oldest son said he really doesn't like his dad. Their dad makes them scrub the floor like they are in boot camp, while he doesn't do chit. He has also had these kids running and drinking protein shakes since they were little. His wife is pregnant with their 4th child, and he bought her a size 18 maternity dress, when she will probably not even reach a size 12 at full term. The kids don't get anything new, just second hand clothes. My wife and I thought about sending the boys some Starbury shoes and gear. But in a way, it's enabling this fool by taking care of his kids while he sits back and does nothing.

She told me a few other things, but I can't recall. We were both saying that she should leave this idiot. But she can't up and leave, because you can't take someone's kids from them, even if he is a terrible parent. Seems to me like dude is isolating his wife. He's more mentally abusive right now, but it will eventually become physical. This reminds me of the woman on Oprah.

Worst of all, his boys, as much as they hate their dad, will probably emulate him when they get older. And that poor unborn child. I'm not a big fan of abortion, but this would be the perfect situation to get one.

This isn't just their problem. It's OUR problem as a society. God help us ALL

Glad you realize that although it lies in their home, the problem affects us all. How sad.

I don't think an abortion is the answer, though--I've seen footage of what they do. That baby didn't ask to be conceived, and it's not fair he/she have their life taken.

As for Father of the year , he needs to buy a damn clue. I think sending the kids sneakers and clothes is the wrong thing to do as well. Maybe some board games or toys they can use would be better. At least that way, you won't appear to be doing it bc he's not. This cat needs to be spayed.

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I think sending the kids sneakers and clothes is the wrong thing to do as well. Maybe some board games or toys they can use would be better.

But right now, they look like the guy from the club with the 99 Jordans.

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But she can't up and leave, because you can't take someone's kids from them, even if he is a terrible parent.

Sheeeeeeedddd. She can leave and take the kids with her.

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I'm not a big fan of abortion, but this would be the perfect situation to get one.

Well....can the husband be....ABORTED?
Oh wait, that's murder...never mind.

Dude is definitely a piece of work.

Not much you can really do about this situation at all, Shine.
I've seen similar and worse in my own family.

And sistagirl got another one on the way?

Babygirl is just getting deeper and DEEPER AND DEEPER!

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But she can't up and leave, because you can't take someone's kids from them, even if he is a terrible parent.

Sheeeeeeedddd. She can leave and take the kids with her.

See, I think she'd need court ordered custody for that. if that's the case, anyone, mother or father, can take his/her kids away from the other parent and not let him/her know their whereabouts. I would think that's borderline kidnapping. I may be wrong, but seems to me like the first steps would be separation, then divorce, then custody hearing, then relocation. She'd definitely win custody, but I have a question. Could he sue her for alimony since she's been the one supporting him for the past 4-5 years? DAMN!!! She's REALLY in a bind.

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I'm not a big fan of abortion, but this would be the perfect situation to get one.

Well....can the husband be....ABORTED?
Oh wait, that's murder...never mind.

Dude is definitely a piece of work.

Not much you can really do about this situation at all, Shine.
I've seen similar and worse in my own family.

And sistagirl got another one on the way?

Babygirl is just getting deeper and DEEPER AND DEEPER!

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He has also had these kids running and drinking protein shakes since they were little.

This is the only thing he is doing that I DO NOT HAVE a problem with.

None the less, this cat is a JERK.

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Originally posted by shine3000:

But she can't up and leave, because you can't take someone's kids from them, even if he is a terrible parent.

Sheeeeeeedddd. She can leave and take the kids with her.

See, I think she'd need court ordered custody for that. if that's the case, anyone, mother or father, can take his/her kids away from the other parent and not let him/her know their whereabouts. I would think that's borderline kidnapping. I may be wrong, but seems to me like the first steps would be separation, then divorce, then custody hearing, then relocation. She'd definitely win custody, but I have a question. Could he sue her for alimony since she's been the one supporting him for the past 4-5 years? DAMN!!! She's REALLY in a bind.

Well yeah if she leaves all she needs to do is go to court, and even that can wait. It ain't hard.

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He has also had these kids running and drinking protein shakes since they were little.

This is the only thing he is doing that I DO NOT HAVE a problem with.

None the less, this cat is a JERK.

Crown, I don't know about having 3 year olds drinking protein shakes, egg whites, and working out like Roy Jones. i think Floyd Mayweather Sr. was strict like this with his son, and they don't get along all that well.

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He has also had these kids running and drinking protein shakes since they were little.

This is the only thing he is doing that I DO NOT HAVE a problem with.

None the less, this cat is a JERK.

Crown, I don't know about having 3 year olds drinking protein shakes, egg whites, and working out like Roy Jones. i think Floyd Mayweather Sr. was strict like this with his son, and they don't get along all that well.

My Pops tried the same thing, I just wish my mother would have NOT stepped in. I USE to be extremely ripped.

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But she can't up and leave, because you can't take someone's kids from them, even if he is a terrible parent.

Sheeeeeeedddd. She can leave and take the kids with her.

See, I think she'd need court ordered custody for that. if that's the case, anyone, mother or father, can take his/her kids away from the other parent and not let him/her know their whereabouts. I would think that's borderline kidnapping. I may be wrong, but seems to me like the first steps would be separation, then divorce, then custody hearing, then relocation. She'd definitely win custody, but I have a question. Could he sue her for alimony since she's been the one supporting him for the past 4-5 years? DAMN!!! She's REALLY in a bind.

Well yeah if she leaves all she needs to do is go to court, and even that can wait. It ain't hard.

Is it that easy for a man to take the kids and run?

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Well yeah if she leaves all she needs to do is go to court, and even that can wait. It ain't hard.

Is it that easy for a man to take the kids and run?

I'm not saying to "run"... that sounds like kidnapping. She can just leave. It happens all the time.

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We were both saying that she should leave this idiot. But she can't up and leave, because you can't take someone's kids from them, even if he is a terrible parent. (Oh, really?)
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...daddy pushes his mommy.

And she's pregnant? There's no cop I know of that won't take his azz to jail for putting his hands on a pregnant mother. And, there's no judge that I know of who wouldn't grant her a divorce from an abusive azzhole like this- especially if the kids tell the court the same story that they told the aunt... But, it's her choice to want to take action.

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Well yeah if she leaves all she needs to do is go to court, and even that can wait. It ain't hard.

Is it that easy for a man to take the kids and run?

I'm not saying to "run"... that sounds like kidnapping. She can just leave. It happens all the time.

I'm talking about her moving out of state, to say, Texas.

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We were both saying that she should leave this idiot. But she can't up and leave, because you can't take someone's kids from them, even if he is a terrible parent. (Oh, really?)
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...daddy pushes his mommy.

And she's pregnant? There's no cop I know of that won't take his azz to jail for putting his hands on a pregnant mother. And, there's no judge that I know of who wouldn't grant her a divorce from an abusive azzhole like this- especially if the kids tell the court the same story that they told the aunt... But, it's her choice to want to take action.

A couple of things. The pushing incident I believed happened before she was pregnant. Doesn't make it right, I'm just trying to clear that up. Also, I think she should leave. But as my wife said, she's been with this dude since high school. She was her first real BF. Her mom really can't say chit to her about leaving him, because her mom stayed with an assclown for years, up until now. She doesn't have much loot. Her confidence is shot. Heck, i was joking with the wife that she should pray this fool gets in a car accident or something. Cruel joke, but still. Either way, I SERIOUSLY doubt he has life insurance on him, so it won't matter much.

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Well yeah if she leaves all she needs to do is go to court, and even that can wait. It ain't hard.

Is it that easy for a man to take the kids and run?

I'm not saying to "run"... that sounds like kidnapping. She can just leave. It happens all the time.

I'm talking about her moving out of state, to say, Texas.

Well she can move out while in Cali, get the divorce, and then move to Texas.

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Well yeah if she leaves all she needs to do is go to court, and even that can wait. It ain't hard.

Is it that easy for a man to take the kids and run?

I'm not saying to "run"... that sounds like kidnapping. She can just leave. It happens all the time.

I'm talking about her moving out of state, to say, Texas.

Well she can move out while in Cali, get the divorce, and then move to Texas.

I was telling the wife that she can get the same 3000 sq. ft. home we are building for $150K. Plenty of room for the 4 kids.

I blame the mother. She is the one jeopardizing her kids' future by staying with this nutcase. I would call her selfsih because she is putting her personal feelings over what's right for her children.

No woman who truly loves her children would want to keep them in such an enviroment.

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I blame the mother. She is the one jepordizing her kids future by staying with this nutcase. I would call her selfsih because she is putting her personal feelings over what's right for her children.

No woman who truly loves her children would want to keep them in such an enviroment.

There are some women out there who put their men before their children.