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My 9mm would have a lil' "heart-to-heart" conversation with said friend.

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This sounds very familar.......hmmm

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Isn't 21 considered an adult?

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Damn. That's a tough one. Really can't do anything because both are adults. Wouldn't be my friend anymore.

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That's a tough one! The first instinct is to rip said friend to shreds and put said child on your knee and beat some sense into them!!!

Friend should RESPECT your child and treat them like family, NOT a lover (IMO). And just how long has "friend" been scopin' out your child??? FOR REAL???

Hell, let's just say I don't know WTF to do in this situation!!!

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My girls wouldn't dare try me like that. I wouldn't even think of doing this to one of them either.

First, you changing his diapers, now he pulling off your thongs?? That don't even sound right.

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Friend's kids are like nieces and nephews. I don't see how anyone could view their friend's kids as anything else. I could not tolerate a friend scoping on my son or my daughter! Hell Naw!

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Sounds a lot like the latest R-Kelly scandal.

Keep your temper and cut all ties, much, like the mother of young woman (R Kelly's publicist) did.

And make sure it doesn't taint your relationship with your child.

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..is banging one of your ~~close friends.~~

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Couldn't do a darn thing about it.

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Friend's kids are like nieces and nephews. I don't see how anyone could view their friend's kids as anything else. I could not tolerate a friend scoping on my son or my daughter! Hell Naw!

I agree with you JT, most of my friends children refer to me as auntie and my friends are referred to as auntie or uncle so and so. Can't disown your child but you can disown a friend, well I would even call that person a friend. A friend should treat your child like their "own".

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LOL @ Essence.

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Originally posted by Essence:
My girls wouldn't dare try me like that. I wouldn't even think of doing this to one of them either.

First, you changing his diapers, now he pulling off your thongs?? That don't even sound right.

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..is banging one of your close friends. Someone that has known them since they were 6 or 7. Would you feel betrayed? Would you intervene? How would you handle the situation?

Hmmm, interesting.

On one hand, if the close friend was fine

, I'd be pissed, especially if I wanted to hit it and didn't get a chance before his old arse did.

On the other hand, I would think that he would have better judgment where it concerned her, but then again, not knowing who made what advances, coupled with the way these young ladies claim their "grown-ness," you never know.

Would it be better if he hadn't known her since she was 6 or 7?

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Originally posted by The Dark Knight:
quote:
Originally posted by Venom Skywalker:
..is banging one of your close friends. Someone that has known them since they were 6 or 7. Would you feel betrayed? Would you intervene? How would you handle the situation?

Hmmm, interesting.

On one hand, if the close friend was fine , I'd be pissed, especially if I wanted to hit it and didn't get a chance before his old arse did.

On the other hand, I would think that he would have better judgment where it concerned her, but then again, not knowing who made what advances, coupled with the way these young ladies claim their "grown-ness," you never know.

Would it be better if he hadn't known her since she was 6 or 7?

What about your son??? Is it ok for him to bang one of your female friends (who is your age)????

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I'm ufcking him up. Period.

If you've known my child since they were 6/7 and now you're sleeping with them, there's nothing to discuss. That means you've been thinking about her in a way that you shouldn't for quite some time. It also means that you haven't pulled my coat to her possibly trying to flirt with you if she was pursuing you. Therefore, I'm going to assume that you pursued her.

Friendship has to mean something.

And again I say, I'm ufcking him up. Period.

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I'm ufcking him up. Period.

If you've known my child since they were 6/7 and now you're sleeping with them, there's nothing to discuss. That means you've been thinking about her in a way that you shouldn't for quite some time. It also means that you haven't pulled my coat to her possibly trying to flirt with you if she was pursuing you. Therefore, I'm going to assume that you pursued her.

Friendship has to mean something.

And again I say, I'm ufcking him up. Period.

Go Daddy!!!!!

But again I ask, what about your son??

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Originally posted by Venom Skywalker:
..is banging one of your close friends. Someone that has known them since they were 6 or 7. Would you feel betrayed? Would you intervene? How would you handle the situation?

Hmmm, interesting.

On one hand, if the close friend was fine , I'd be pissed, especially if I wanted to hit it and didn't get a chance before his old arse did.

On the other hand, I would think that he would have better judgment where it concerned her, but then again, not knowing who made what advances, coupled with the way these young ladies claim their "grown-ness," you never know.

Would it be better if he hadn't known her since she was 6 or 7?

What about your son??? Is it ok for him to bang one of your female friends (who is your age)????

I didn't say it was "okay," either way. LOL

If my son can pull a woman my age, then he is truly my son!

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